This past saturday, we decorated our Christmas tree (an artificial one, to be more eco friendly, of course!). This year, we decided to have two Christmas trees: a bigger one in the living room, like always, and a smaller one in the balcony. Even if we don't decorate the inside of the house this year, the house still looks so... Winter-like!
When I was browsing LiveJournal, I found a post that maked me quite mad: a certain person was saying that feminists were a bunch of stupid women and men haters. As a feminist (an eco-feminist, actually), there's nothing that hurts me more than to see ignorant people making stupid comments about things they obviously don't know. Ignorance is really a man's worst enemy. :-( First; I'm a proud feminist and I don't hate men. Why should I hate them? Even if some man had hurted me, judging the entire masculine sex for something that only one person did is pretty stupid. True feminists don't do that and they aren't men haters, either. Second; this person implied that the feminist's work is done in our society, that "real" women didn't cared about things like that and should be moving on. Of course we don't have the same level of discrimination women in Africa have, but we STILL aren't equal and we STILL need feminism (www.ideasforwomen.com/news/womens-issues/2007/04/03/132/). How many women politicians do we have compared to men? And women in the Army or in the Police? And what about the number of women that are raped, killed and abused? There is far more women sexually assaulted than men and the criminal system is still failling these victims. There's still a lot to be done, a lot. That person also said a thing about how transgendered FTM were stupid and sexist (for some people, apparently, ignorance is really a personality trait). I bet Brandon Teena's murderers (www.en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Brandon_Teena) thought the same thing. :-( All of us have to be modern warriors and fight against things like that. It's our duty as women and men in today's society.
I also found this list:
Homophobia and You
I am the girl kicked out of her home because I confided in my mother that I am a lesbian.
I am the prostitute working the streets because nobody will hire a transsexual woman.
I am the sister who holds her gay brother tight through the painful, tear-filled nights.
We are the parents who buried our daughter long before her time.
I am the man who died alone in the hospital because they would not let my partner of twenty-seven years into the room.
I am the foster child who wakes up with nightmares of being taken away from the two fathers who are the only loving family I have ever had. I wish they could adopt me.
I am one of the lucky ones, I guess. I survived the attack that left me in a coma for three weeks, and in another year I will probably be able to walk again.
I am not one of the lucky ones. I killed myself just weeks before graduating high school. It was simply too much to bear.
We are the couple who had the realtor hang up on us when she found out we wanted to rent a one-bedroom for two men.
I am the person who never knows which bathroom I should use if I want to avoid getting the management called on me.
I am the mother who is not allowed to even visit the children I bore, nursed, and raised. The court says I am an unfit mother because I now live with another woman.
I am the domestic-violence survivor who found the support system grow suddenly cold and distant when they found out my abusive partner is also a woman.
I am the domestic-violence survivor who has no support system to turn to because I am male.
I am the father who has never hugged his son because I grew up afraid to show affection to other men.
I am the home-economics teacher who always wanted to teach gym until someone told me that only lesbians do that.
I am the woman who died when the EMTs stopped treating me as soon as they realized I was transsexual.
I am the person who feels guilty because I think I could be a much better person if I didn’t have to always deal with society hating me.
I am the man who stopped attending church, not because I don't believe, but because they closed their doors to my kind.
I am the person who has to hide what this world needs most, love.
I am the person who is afraid of telling his loving Christian parents he loves another male.
If you also think homophobia is wrong, please post this in your LJ/blog/site, etc.
